Well, here we are in yet another new year. It is the custom to make lots of good wishes and prophecies and (Arrgh!!) resolutions for behavioral changes at this time. Sigh...
Been there, done that, never works.
You're gonna do what you always do, because it's habit and because you find it too much effort to engage in the "correct" behavior.
And anyway, who decides what that consists of - society, religions, or others with agendas that do not necessarily favor or benefit you? Screw 'em.
If you're some form of "socially unacceptable,"—whatever that might be— it's time to establish some self-regard. Cause in the end, nobody's gonna give a shit about what happened in your life but you, so satisfy yourself.